it would seem this is going around.

[cookiedough]

when are you people going to learn that there's a line that should never be crossed and that's telling someone to die or making cracks about death they've experienced.

even anon. first chris, now nabii and it brought it back for me. how do people feel alright knowing that as a human they are telling another human to go end their life. how do people think that going anon makes saying that ok, how do they feel ok in their souls, saying it.

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[sharpest_rose.livejournal.com]

I quite literally understand psychopaths for the first time right now. Because, okay, see, sociopathy is where someone doesn't have an ability to feel empathy with the pain of others. I get that. But I've always wondered why that then translates to 'serial killer' so often. How does one lead to the other when they don't seem related.

But this: how do people think that going anon makes saying that ok, how do they feel ok in their souls, saying it. has weirdly made me finally get it. It turns out that a LOT of people, ordinary people, have a basic nature wherein as soon as they stop having to consider the feelings of others, they immediately desire an opportunity to harm those others.

It's not human nature, not quite -- there are still good humans out there. But it's common, at least. And it sucks hardcore. I'm sorry some people are such shitbags.

[cookiedough.livejournal.com]

What I don't get is what do they gain. I know every act is a selfish one - even if its seemingly unselfish you are still doing it to gain the satisfaction of doing the right thing.. What do these people gain here?

[(Anonymous)]

1. Hypocrisy.

2. Obviously it is no reflection on a person's soul that their first reaction to a human being getting brutally assaulted with a knife is to film it and laugh and then post it on the internet as "entertainment" for other people.

[(Anonymous)]

thank you

[mirfainlasui.livejournal.com]

Ugh fuck you on both counts.

Firstly, for all nat's faults (and she's aware of what they are)she's never wished someone or members of their family should die.

And as to the Chris thing. Oh fuck it, I can't be bothered to go into why I think all the outrage over that is so hilariously stupid, but kids need to get a grip. And he's worth so much more than some little coward that can't even man up enough to log in before posting something like this on a post.

[(Anonymous)]

does frank iero really have a restraining order against you? :O

[cookiedough.livejournal.com]

oh jesus fucking christ. no he doesnt. some shit went down with my chem like - literally years ago - but no, i have not been issued a restraining order. the truth is buried under like, so much fucking internet gossip. its old news but i still hate talking/hearing about it so please go away?

and to pre-empt you
no i did not try make out with him
no i did not drive around after their bus - i cant even drive
no i did not keep trying to have anything to do with them after this happened

some shit got mixed up, my 'relationship' with the band ended. go bug eliza, she's got way better stories than me.

[(Anonymous)]

what even happened though?
...i saw that anon comment in fbg and i was just wondering

who's eliza?

[cookiedough.livejournal.com]

So you thought the answer was to come here, anon, and ask me about it like its a totally casual thing that I'm fine talking about?

And eliza is gerards crazy ex-fiancee. I mean super nuts.

[(Anonymous)]

idk i guess. i was just wondering about it seeing as everyone has a different story.

i remember reading about her actually, i always preferred her over lyn-z :| i guess i didn't know much haha

[cookiedough.livejournal.com]

Three years ago I would have gotten into this straight away, defending myself, and I still kind of want to purely because you won't get the actual story anywhere else and people asking 'the internet' about me tends to bring up drama that should be buried yet keeps me awake at night. There is no one on the internet that can tell you the truth but me.

But whatever, you won't believe it anyway and you are probably trolling and just acting innocently curious so the second I say something you can go and repost it at fbg or anonq and say 'haha, look at what she's trying to say now' because this is what people do to me. You coming on to my journal anonymously and opening with that rather insensitive question is not exactly building bridges of trust here.

Shit happened. In 2006. its dead now. The only thing that keeps it alive is the internets botched and untrue re-telling of it and I wish they'd just leave it alone. As soon as it happened I went mad trying to put the truth out there but people decided that they knew the truth from some anon and wouldn't believe me, or that I liked the attention and drama.

Every time this gets brought up I get amazed that people can talk about it so casually when it was the worst harrassment of my life. I'm sure its very funny to them but.. Its not, to me.

[(Anonymous)]

i don't really go on fbg much, so i'm not trolling.
but yeah, of course i don't expect you to tell me the story!

i'm sorry that people can be so mean, rude and hurtful.
i'll leave this alone now, sorry for upsetting you.

[cookiedough.livejournal.com]

Part of me wants to tell you because I feel you are being innocently curious, but I don't have a huge amount of trust for the internet in general. You don't have to go anon you know, I won't be angry about it.